
They started by dressing me in panties and stockings…….

They started by dressing me in panties and stockings…….
I was asked today what is it about submissive men I like, are they not weak? So here are my thoughts about this…. outside of the fantasy of the internet or the male constructed image of what a dominant woman is…..
A truly submissive man is rarely weak in any sense, nor are they lazy, or stupid or a doormat.
Relationships, connections with and submission from a submissive man come in many forms., Here are my experiences, observations and the traits I like.
1. Often very intelligent, life’s thinkers… this appeals to me, clever minds need to be switched off. They also usually appreciate a clever woman and are not threatened by that.
2. True gentleman, they open doors for you, pull back chairs in restaurants, give you their coat if you are cold. I personally love this, it makes you feel looked after.
3. Your pleasure is theirs ….. this covers a wide range of things from making you laugh to making you orgasm, usually giving in nature rather than taking. There is nothing hotter than a man finding happiness, pleasure or arousal, by facilitating yours. They are usually appreciate being guided or for a woman to take the lead completely, without seeing it as Criticism or some kind of assault on their masculinity. Getting laid is not usually high on their agenda, getting you off usually is.
4. They see the beauty you have inside and out and usually put greater value on the beauty inside.
5. They appreciate the things you do for them, and notice when you do.
6. They love making you feel better or good. Usually they notice when your not feeling good too and do their best to help.
7. They are Attentive -Foot rubs, massages, bringing you coffee, stuff that just needs doing. They usually like to talk, share dreams, ideas and generally just spend time with you.
8. They will take over when you need them to… they understand that need and even the most Dominant of dommes need to just check out sometimes, submissive men will help you do that, simply because that’s what you need …. they like to meet your needs.
9. They are usually very passionate, about life, their interests, you!
10. They like to be showered with affection and praise and will do things to get that.
11. Hold you in high regard and tell you so, the love and devotion a submissive man will express to his chosen dominant is a beautiful thing.
12. They are comfortable with their masculinity and their submission, they adore the dominance of femininity.
13. Usually fans of a corseted woman, a big plus for me.
14. Usually protective of their dominant, they usually insist that others treat their lady with the same respect they do.
15. Often sensitive and feeling
16. Value cuddles and intimacy
17. Thoughtful gift givers, even if the gift is their time.
18. They worship you, this can take many forms from kissing your feet to telling you they feel lucky to be in your life.
19. Motivated, usually in most aspects in life, life’s doers.
20. They are not intimidated by your confidence, sexuality, success, ambition, achievements, they usually find that a turn on.
I could go on and on, but I find no weakness in a submissive man. Quite the opposite - I see strength in someone knowing what makes them happy, is confident to ignore the stereotype of “manly” behaviour, has complete respect for women and sees my needs equal to or greater than his own…
I give thanks to the universe for creating such a glorious creature as the submissive man and I’m sure many other dominant women do to!
I hope that my Mistress sees me this way. I’m not weak, I’m just happy to serve.
Its all about joy and happiness…..whatever you’re into.
John received a very firm reminder of his place the other night.
I could use a reminder like this
Sometimes our little Johns just can’t seem to stay out of trouble and boy oh boy does out grown-up John ever pay the price for it.
How did they get that video of me? She promised it wouldn’t get out!
Looks like us
“That’s it Boy! wiggle that naughty little ass for me. It must be so humiliating jiggling your disobedient, whipped little tushie about , as you squeal and plead like a little girl. I’m sure it stings unbearably.But I just love your frantic little hiney dance, my naughty little man. God, I could do this all day!”
IMAGES I LIKE AS A REAL DOMINANT WIFE
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Im next….please!

My final punishment is tonight….always the third phase of all my punishments have been the most severe. Im told i am to be spanked, paddled and then cained. There will be people i dont know….who have been encouraged to participate if they would like. Its to take place outside in my back yard.
I consent to my wife’s use of real corporal punishment to address my transgressions. We’ve agreed this is the best way to handle any poor behavior, decisions or attitude. It is in fact a REAL spanking. She doesn’t dress up in a Mistress outfit, or give warm up swats before the spanking. She doesn’t rub my butt before or in between swats or take time in between swats to say anything, (thus giving me a break from the pain from the spanking). It is just a domestic discipline session. One swat after another after another. And it is a struggle to stay in position as my knees buckle from the intense pain but I know I had better or she’ll add penalty swats to the end of the spanking. She’s not mean…She is just but very severe when it comes time for a domestic discipline session. She knows that this punishment is very effective and at the end of the day, it cultivates me into better behaviors and attitudes. I am grateful to her for her implementation, but fear the next one which she has informed me, will happen tomorrow (Thursday) night.
Fits our lifestyle to a T.
I can’t wait till Thursday. Ill show up early….oh…wait a minute….ill show up late!!!
A spanking, given publicly, is always more painful. As an ego breaker, it creates incredible ties for the spanker-spankee relationship if it survives this moment, an incredible complicity.
A spanking works better if he is totally naked and you spank him in a room full of your friends. Also use a bath brush so he kicks and exposes himself even more as he is spanked. Don’t stop spanking him until he cries like a naughty little boy.
And on top of all that, don’t hesitate to invite any or all of the other women if they want to take a turn at spanking his bare bottom to really make him even more embarrassed.

Yes, dctumspot, it does actually happen, and YES it does make it hurt more when you get ZERO pleasure out of it.
This is the philosophy I was raised with. I could be spanked anywhere anytime, and by just about any female, especially with my step-mothers approval
Oh oh. Now she is going to add public humiliation to his punishment by spanking him outside where EVERYONE can hear, and some can probably see him getting spanked like the naughty little boy we all truly are.